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Virginie  Sussest

Virginie Sussest , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Person-focused counsellor with grief experience

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Experience

11+ years

Credentials

BACP

Languages

English, French, Italian

Based in

United Kingdom

  • Attachment-informed
  • Bereavement support
  • Practical CBT tools

About Virginie

Virginie Sussest is a counsellor who draws on person-focused and psychodynamic ideas to help people navigate emotional pain and difficult life moments. She brings 11 years of experience and a BACP registration to her practice and works with people on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression and relationship concerns. She also supports people with grief, addiction-related struggles and intimacy-related issues.

Virginie spent over a decade working with bereavement services, supporting people through loss and major life transitions. That background shapes a calm, respectful way of working and an emphasis on understanding personal history. She aims to tailor conversations to each person’s needs rather than using a one-size-fits-all approach.

Her approach combines attachment-based ideas, client-centred listening and cognitive behavioural techniques. In practice this means exploring how relationships and past experiences affect current feelings, while also trying practical steps to change unhelpful patterns. She may use short-term solution-focused work when people want clear, goal-oriented sessions.

Sessions are framed around collaboration: setting small goals, reviewing progress and adapting the plan as needed. Virginie describes her role as supportive and empowering, helping people gain clarity and practical ways to manage daily life. She speaks English, French and Italian.

If you are unsure where to begin she asks simple questions to understand your situation and priorities before agreeing next steps. To start, use the site process to match and schedule a first session based on therapist availability.

How these approaches work online

Attachment-based work focuses on how early relationships shape feelings and patterns in adult life. Online conversations can help people notice how those patterns show up now and practice new ways of relating. Client-centred therapy puts the person’s experience at the heart of each session, with the counsellor listening, reflecting and following the client’s lead to build understanding. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and behaviours that keep problems going and offers simple, practical exercises to change them.

Deciding which approach to use is part of the journey. The counsellor will discuss your goals, preferences and what feels most helpful, then agree a plan together. That collaborative process lets you try different ways of working until something fits.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people use tools such as worksheets and homework between meetings to practice new skills and track progress.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefAnger managementDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Registration details

BACP · United Kingdom
373578

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this counsellor work with?

Common concerns include stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief, addictions and intimacy-related difficulties. Additional areas listed include parenting, self-esteem, career and ADHD-related coping.

What is the therapist's style of working?

Her style blends client-centred listening with attachment-based thinking and cognitive behavioural elements. She aims for a collaborative, practical approach that adapts to each person's needs.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has 11 years of professional experience, including over ten years supporting people through bereavement and loss. That experience informs her calm and sensitive way of working.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the BACP and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian.

Can people outside the UK work with this counsellor?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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