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Shantel Farrow

Shantel Farrow, LMFT

Therapist in Oklahoma

Practical, person-focused therapy for relationship and intimacy concerns

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Experience

8+ years

Credentials

LMFT

Languages

English

Based in

Oklahoma

  • Person-centered care
  • Attachment-informed work
  • Practical coping skills

About Shantel

Shantel Farrow is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Oklahoma. She helps people facing anxiety, depression, relationship strain, and intimacy-related concerns. Her work aims to make starting therapy less overwhelming and more practical for everyday life.

She uses a person-centered style that keeps each session focused on what matters most to the client. Conversations move at the client's pace and emphasize clear, achievable steps. She draws on attachment-based ideas to look at patterns in relationships and on cognitive behavioral techniques to notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.

Shantel also incorporates mindfulness and existential perspectives to help people find meaning and calm during hard times. For clients with trauma, she implements approaches that address past events while keeping current coping skills strong. Her methods are intended to fit real routines, not add extra burden.

With eight years of clinical experience, Shantel supports people dealing with grief, addictions, body image and eating concerns, ADHD, parenting stress, chronic illness, and other complex issues. She includes attention to attachment, abandonment, blended family dynamics, and caregiver strain when relevant.

Her sessions are offered in English and she is able to work with international clients. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule appointments based on availability.

How these approaches work online

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect present connections and emotions. Online sessions can use this approach to spot recurring relationship habits and try new ways of relating in everyday life. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on a respectful, nonjudgmental conversation where the client's priorities guide each session; it helps with building self-esteem and finding personal direction. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) offers concrete tools to change negative thinking and behavior, and can be used to manage anxiety, depression, and stress through goal-oriented exercises.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about needs, goals, and preferences and will suggest approaches that fit. Decisions about what methods to use are collaborative and can change as progress is made.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It can also help people keep appointments during life transitions or while coordinating care across locations. Licensed professionals adapt exercises, homework, and pacing so therapeutic work fits regular routines without creating extra strain.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

License details

LMFT · Oklahoma
LMFT01281
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1013289727

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Shantel help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy-related issues, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, body image and eating concerns, ADHD, parenting and caregiver stress, and many related life challenges.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is person-centered and practical, focusing on the client's goals. Sessions often mix conversation, skill-building, and reflective work to create concrete steps forward.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has eight years of experience working as a licensed clinician in a range of settings and with many common mental health concerns.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She holds an LMFT credential and practices in Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts clients from outside the United States.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before scheduling so you know whether remote or in-person sessions are offered.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule appointments according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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