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Paula Appleton

Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS

Therapist in United Kingdom

Integrative counsellor for emotional and intimacy challenges

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Experience

14+ years

Credentials

BACP, NCPS

Languages

English, American Sign Language

Based in

United Kingdom

  • Practical step focused
  • Works with trauma
  • ASL and SSE capable

About Paula

Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years' experience who works from an integrative perspective. She blends different therapeutic methods to suit each person's needs, guided by the BACP Ethical Framework and her registrations with BACP and NCPS. Paula supports people through a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression and intimacy-related issues.

She makes sessions practical and down to earth. Conversations focus on what is happening now and on small steps people can try between meetings. Paula draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based ideas to shape the work.

Paula also works with addiction, bereavement, trauma and issues linked to self-esteem and parenting. She is experienced in supporting people with neurodiversity, chronic health concerns and caring responsibilities. Her practice includes work with LGBT clients and those coping with major life changes.

She can communicate using English and American Sign Language and is experienced in working with Deaf and hard of hearing clients, including use of Signed Supported English and British Sign Language at NVQ Level 6. Paula works with people across the United Kingdom and accepts international clients where appropriate.

To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability. Sessions are arranged via a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

Therapeutic approaches you can use online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choose actions that match their values. It can help with anxiety, stress and making life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and works by trying small, structured changes to ease symptoms such as low mood, worry or problems with sleep. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how early relationships shape current patterns and can help people understand and change painful ways of relating or coping.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will help you and her decide together which methods fit your goals, needs and preferences. That choice can change over time as the work develops and new priorities emerge.

The original profile does not list session formats, so please confirm current online options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into everyday life by removing travel, allowing shorter check-ins during the day, or reducing the need to be on camera when that helps. Many people find that remote sessions make it simpler to keep continuity while juggling work, caregiving and other commitments, and therapists who work with registered or accredited professionals will adapt tools from ACT, CBT and attachment work for the online setting.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Registration details

BACP · United Kingdom
191689
NCPS · United Kingdom
NCS22-02588

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What types of concerns does Paula address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, intimacy-related issues and a wide range of other concerns listed on her profile.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is integrative and practical, blending approaches to suit each person and focusing on small, usable steps between sessions.

What is her background and experience?

Paula has 14 years of counselling experience working with diverse presenting issues and tailoring therapy to individual needs.

Which credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?

She is listed with BACP and NCPS and practises from the United Kingdom.

In what languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English and American Sign Language; she also uses Signed Supported English and British Sign Language at NVQ Level 6.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options when booking.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time; specific costs vary with location and the therapist's availability.

How do I get started with Paula?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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