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Patricia Sumlin

Patricia Sumlin, LMFT

Therapist in Washington

Straightforward therapist focused on resilience

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Experience

25+ years

Credentials

LMFT

Languages

English

Based in

Washington

  • Practical tools
  • Trauma-informed
  • Values-based

About Patricia

Patricia Sumlin is a licensed marriage and family therapist who aims to help people facing stress, anxiety, depression, and intimacy-related challenges. She has 25 years of clinical experience and works with a wide range of concerns, including trauma, addictions, LGBT issues, grief, and ADHD. Patricia writes plainly and speaks directly, offering practical tools alongside emotional support.

Her approach blends several evidence-informed methods to match each person's needs. She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help clients identify values and take manageable steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people spot unhelpful thinking patterns and try different behaviors. Attachment-based ideas are woven in to look at how early relationships shape current patterns.

Patricia emphasizes an honest, straightforward working relationship. She balances direct feedback with respect and nonjudgmental listening so clients feel believed and taken seriously. Sessions focus on building coping skills, emotional regulation, and everyday strategies that can be used between meetings.

Her background includes running outpatient programs, DBT groups, trauma work in Alaska's Yupik villages, services in homeless shelters, and hospice bereavement counseling. That range informs a practical, common-sense style that aims to increase resilience and competence in daily life.

Patricia practices in Washington and holds California and Washington LMFT licenses. She offers sessions in English and does not accept international clients. To begin, clients use the site Start Therapy process to be matched and schedule based on therapist availability.

How therapy approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying what matters to you and taking small, value-driven steps. It helps with anxiety, depression, and life changes by teaching ways to act despite difficult thoughts or feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and teaches practical skills to test and change unhelpful patterns. It is useful for anxiety, mood concerns, and coping with stress. Attachment-Based Therapy examines how early relationships shape current ways of relating and can be helpful for intimacy, relationship patterns, and trust issues.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. Patricia will work with each person to choose or combine methods based on goals, preferences, and what shows progress in sessions. That collaborative process helps tailor work to real-life needs rather than a fixed formula.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the available session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. Many people appreciate being able to schedule therapy around work, caregiving, or other daily commitments while maintaining consistent therapeutic progress.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

License details

LMFT · California
44844
LMFT · Washington
LF 60059026
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1891899027

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Patricia help with?

She helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, intimacy-related issues, relationship and family concerns, grief, ADHD, and related challenges.

What is her therapy style like?

She takes a direct and respectful approach that combines practical skill building with emotional insight. Sessions aim to teach coping tools and improve everyday functioning.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She brings 25 years of experience across outpatient clinics, DBT groups, trauma programs, homeless services, and hospice bereavement work.

What credentials and region does she practice in?

She is an LMFT licensed in California and Washington and practices in Washington state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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