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Martha "Marti" Stany

Martha "Marti" Stany, LCSW, CSW

Therapist in Wisconsin

Supportive therapist for intimacy and trauma concerns

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Experience

10+ years

Credentials

LCSW, CSW

Languages

English

Based in

Wisconsin

  • Trauma informed care
  • Focus on intimacy
  • Values based work

About Martha

Martha "Marti" Stany is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on sexual health, trauma, and relationship concerns. She brings ten years of clinical experience and a calm, respectful manner to sessions. Marti centers clients' own goals and priorities when planning care.

She uses straightforward, practical methods to help people reduce anxiety, manage stress, and address intimacy-related worries. Sessions emphasize clear steps clients can try between meetings. Marti draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Attachment-Based Therapy to tailor work to each person.

Marti has worked with people across a range of concerns including mood disorders, trauma and abuse, addiction, body image, and issues related to sexual expression and alternative sex culture. Her experience includes supporting LGBTQ people and addressing relationship conflict, communication problems, and blended family stress.

Her style is collaborative and nonjudgmental. She aims to help people notice patterns that are holding them back and build new habits that fit their values. Practical skills, emotional awareness, and clearer communication are common focuses in therapy.

Marti is licensed as an LCSW and CSW and practices in Wisconsin. She offers work that combines present-focused skill building with attention to how past attachment patterns influence current relationships.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters most to them and take small steps toward those values despite difficult thoughts or feelings. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and struggles with motivation. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and testing new behaviors to change mood and functioning; it often helps with anxiety, depression, sleep, and coping skills. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how earlier relationships shape current reactions and closeness, which can be helpful for intimacy and relationship difficulties.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Marti treats therapy as a collaborative process and will help figure out which methods align with a person's goals, needs, and preferences. She mixes approaches when that best serves the plan you create together.

If you are considering online work, confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, shorten travel time, and allow check-ins that work around work or caregiving demands. Some approaches translate well to focused skills practice and homework between visits, which clients often find helpful when managing anxiety, sexual concerns, or relationship work.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodImago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

License details

LCSW · Texas
69314
LCSW · Illinois
149018259
LCSW · Colorado
CSW.09927523
LCSW · Wisconsin
12003 - 123
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1184034662

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist address?

Marti helps people with stress, anxiety, sexual and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, depression, and a range of relationship and life-change concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses a compassionate, collaborative, and nonjudgmental approach that centers the client's goals and strengths.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of professional experience working in social work and mental health settings.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LCSW and CSW credentials and practices in Wisconsin.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What is the first step to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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