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Martha Cheesman

Martha Cheesman, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Compassionate counsellor for sexual and relational difficulties

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Experience

10+ years

Credentials

BACP

Languages

English, Spanish

Based in

United Kingdom

  • Client-centred care
  • Trauma aware
  • English and Spanish

About Martha

Martha Cheesman is a BACP counsellor who helps people with sexual dysfunction alongside other concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma and relationship issues. She offers empathetic, grounded support focused on self-worth, purpose and feeling heard. Sessions aim to make space for what has been hard and to find practical ways forward.

She has ten years of more specialised practice and two decades of broader experience in counselling. That background means she draws on a range of ways to help people, choosing techniques that fit each person's situation. Her work attends to how the mind, body and spirit interact rather than treating problems in isolation.

Martha blends client-centred listening with approaches that look at attachment and emotions. Cognitive behaviour ideas are sometimes used to address thinking patterns and behaviours that keep problems going. She also brings existential questions into sessions to help people find meaning and direction when life feels confusing.

Martha uses trauma-aware practices and mindfulness tools when appropriate, and she aims to create a calm, steady space for difficult conversations. She focuses on helping people rebuild self-esteem and stronger ways of relating to themselves and others.

She works in English and Spanish and accepts international clients. Practical steps are discussed together, with pacing and goals agreed as the work unfolds.

Therapeutic approaches and online support

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early bonds shape current relationships and emotional patterns; it helps with trust, closeness and attachment-related anxiety. Client-Centred Therapy centres on listening and empathy so people can find their own solutions and build self-worth through being fully heard. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions and offers hands-on techniques to change unhelpful patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will talk with each person about goals, preferences and what feels most useful. Together they adapt methods and pace so the therapy fits the person's needs and comfort level.

The original profile does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow quicker access when a shorter check-in is needed. It also lets people continue their work when they are living in a different location, since international clients are accepted. Registered or accredited professionals can then agree practical arrangements that suit each person.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Registration details

BACP · United Kingdom
392231

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be brought to therapy?

This counsellor supports a wide range of concerns including sexual dysfunction, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship and intimacy issues, addiction and grief.

What is the therapist's general approach in sessions?

She combines client-centred listening with attachment and emotionally focused ideas, using cognitive behavioural techniques and existential reflections when helpful.

How much experience does the counsellor have?

She has worked in counselling for 20 years, with the last 10 years in a more specialised and qualified capacity.

What credentials and location apply to this counsellor?

She is MBACP registered and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish, and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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