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Lara Shemali

Lara Shemali, LMHC

Therapist in Washington

Experienced Washington LMHC focused on practical change

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Experience

29+ years

Credentials

LMHC

Languages

English

Based in

Washington

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship support
  • Trauma and recovery

About Lara

Lara Shemali is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) in Washington with 29 years of experience. She focuses on stress reduction, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, and depression. Lara emphasizes taking the first step and recognizes that starting therapy can take courage.

She uses clear, practical tools to reduce stress and manage anxiety. Sessions often include ways to boost motivation, build confidence, and support recovery from substance use. She also helps people navigate relationship struggles, communication problems, and the effects of past abuse.

Her approach aims to create an open, nonjudgmental space where clients can share thoughts and feelings. She talks with each person about goals and tailors techniques to fit daily life. Lara is willing to arrange sessions outside standard weekday hours when possible to help people balance therapy with work and family demands.

Over nearly three decades she has worked with many different concerns, including body image, attachment and abandonment problems, chronic illness and pain, and decision points like divorce or separation. She also addresses issues related to alternative sexual culture such as BDSM and kink when those topics come up in therapy.

People who start work with her can expect a collaborative process that focuses on practical changes and clearer thinking. She invites prospective clients to reach out and begin the matching and scheduling steps to get started.

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, stress, and getting unstuck from unhelpful patterns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with new behaviors and experiments, which can reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) centers on emotional experience and improving how people express and respond to feelings, which can help with relationship strain and attachment concerns.

Finding the right approach is a collaboration. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, try techniques, and adjust the plan over time. That process helps match methods like ACT or CBT to the specific problem, whether it is mood, anxiety, trauma, or relationship difficulty.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so please confirm available options before booking. Many people find online work convenient because it fits into busy schedules, avoids travel time, and can make it easier to check in during a lunch break or after work. Therapists licensed in a client’s region can offer continuity of care and tools that translate into everyday life, helping people practice skills between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential Therapy

License details

LMHC · Washington
LH60083808
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1740365444

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Lara help with?

She addresses stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, and depression, plus related issues such as addiction, body image, and attachment concerns.

What is her general therapy style?

Lara offers a nonjudgmental, practical style that focuses on tools to reduce stress, improve communication, and build motivation and confidence.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 29 years of professional experience working with a wide range of mental health and relationship concerns.

What credential does she hold and where does she practice?

She is a licensed mental health counselor, LMHC, licensed in Washington and practices with that credential.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

Format details were not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs and billing handled?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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