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Katharine “Katy” Nicholson

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson, LMFT

Therapist in New York

Warm relational therapist focused on practical steps

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Experience

10+ years

Credentials

LMFT

Languages

English

Based in

New York

  • Attachment-informed work
  • Practical CBT tools
  • Parenting support

About Katharine

Katharine "Katy" Nicholson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in New York. She draws on ten years of clinical experience to help people untangle relationship and family struggles, parenting challenges, and intimacy-related issues. Katy aims to listen first and then problem-solve so people feel heard and understood.

She uses a blend of attachment-focused work and client-centered listening to notice patterns that keep people stuck. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools are used to break down unhelpful thoughts and habits into small, workable steps. She also brings elements of Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy when emotional regulation or deeper connection is needed.

Katy has spent much of her career in outpatient community mental health and has worked with individuals and families on issues like anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, grief, and parenting strain. She also addresses concerns such as body image, communication problems, and life transitions. Her background includes hands-on family therapy, and she often helps parents clarify effective approaches to caregiving.

Sessions are conversational and practical. Clients can expect a warm, patient presence paired with concrete strategies to practice between meetings. Katy says she prefers creative problem solving and will keep working until a useful resolution is reached.

People who want to begin are invited to use the site’s Start Therapy flow to answer a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to therapist availability. The subscription used for sessions can be canceled at any time.

How attachment work and CBT translate to online therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early and current relationship patterns shape feelings and reactions. Online sessions can be used to notice those patterns, name them, and practice new ways of relating during conversations with the therapist. Client-Centered Therapy puts the person's experience first through active listening and gentle reflection, creating space to feel heard and to make decisions at a comfortable pace. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps break down upsetting thoughts and behaviors into small steps you can practice between sessions to reduce symptoms and build new habits.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods match their goals, needs, and preferences. That means trying different techniques and adjusting the plan as progress is tracked together.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, shorten check-ins when time is tight, and remove commute time so therapy fits around parenting or work. Licensed therapists can guide practical at-home exercises, communication practice, and homework that help skills transfer into daily life without promising a specific format.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Imago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

License details

LMFT · New York
001066
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1578845822

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Katy help with?

She works with relationship and family struggles, parenting challenges, intimacy-related issues, trauma, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, and related topics listed in her specialties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and problem-solving. She listens carefully and then offers practical steps drawn from attachment work, CBT, DBT, and emotionally-focused approaches.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of experience and eight years working in outpatient community mental health settings.

What are her professional credentials and location?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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