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Judith "Jude" Holland

Judith "Jude" Holland, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Experienced counsellor for intimate and life changes

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Experience

27+ years

Credentials

BACP

Languages

English

Based in

United Kingdom

  • Relationship focus
  • Trauma-informed
  • BACP registered

About Judith

Judith "Jude" Holland is a counsellor with 27 years of practice in the United Kingdom. She works with people facing relationship strain, intimacy-related concerns and sexual dysfunction. She also supports those coping with grief, trauma and major life changes. Jude speaks plainly and aims to make the first step feel manageable for someone who is unsure about therapy.

Jude believes people know their own stories and brings a collaborative attitude to sessions. She draws on methods that help clients build practical skills and notice patterns that get in the way of what they want. Her background includes work in sexual assault services and leadership roles in higher education counselling. Those roles shaped how she listens to distress and supports recovery.

Across her career Jude has helped people with mood conditions such as bipolar and depression, and with issues including addiction, eating and sleeping problems, and anger. She also works with attachment and abandonment concerns, blended family challenges, and the stresses of caregiving and chronic illness. Her practice includes matters relating to LGBT identities and intimacy difficulties.

Jude lists several therapeutic approaches she uses, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). She says there is no one-size-fits-all method and tailors work to each person’s priorities.

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and offers sessions in English. International clients can be considered through the platform’s processes.

How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, ACT, helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, low mood and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns and helps people build safer ways of relating to themselves and others. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, CBT, looks at unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns and teaches practical skills to change them.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss your goals and preferences and together you will try ways of working that suit you. That collaborative process helps decide whether ACT, attachment work, CBT or a mix feels most useful.

Online therapy can make sessions easier to fit into a busy life. It can reduce travel time, let you schedule shorter check-ins when needed, and allow you to keep meeting even if you move or travel internationally. The biography does not specify which session formats are offered, so please confirm current session options before booking. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often adapt exercises, grounding techniques and homework to the online setting so work can continue between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)HypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Registration details

BACP · United Kingdom
9713

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this counsellor help with?

She works with relationship and intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, trauma and abuse, grief, mood conditions such as bipolar and depression, addiction, eating and sleeping problems, and a range of life-change and caregiver stresses.

What is her general therapeutic style?

The approach is collaborative and plainspoken. She helps people identify patterns, build practical skills and pursue goals that matter to them.

How long has she practised?

She has 27 years of professional experience working in counselling and related clinical roles across education and health settings.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients through the platform, subject to matching and scheduling procedures.

How are costs and payment handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a therapy placement with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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