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Elli Billingsley

Elli Billingsley, LPC

Therapist in Oklahoma

Compassionate counselor focused on practical growth

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Experience

3+ years

Credentials

LPC

Languages

English

Based in

Oklahoma

  • Client-centered care
  • ACT and CBT tools
  • LGBT affirming

About Elli

Elli Billingsley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Oklahoma. She earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University. Elli aims to build a warm, empathetic relationship so people feel heard and supported from the start.

Her style leans toward client-centered care combined with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Sessions are adapted to each person's needs, with practical tools and simple exercises offered when they fit. Elli emphasizes clear communication and steady support rather than jargon or long lectures.

She has experience helping with anxiety, depression, stress, and identity concerns, including LGBT issues and intimacy-related struggles. She also works with trauma and abuse, grief, parenting stress, ADHD, and a range of other life challenges. Elli sees clients starting at age 5 and up and uses child-appropriate methods when needed.

In sessions with younger children she incorporates play-based techniques and trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy strategies. For adults she may draw on ACT, Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills, mindfulness, and client-centered conversation to help people manage emotions and make meaningful changes.

Elli describes her goal as creating an affirming, non-judgmental space where clients can name goals and take practical steps toward them. She supports people who want to feel more confident, cope better with change, or work through relationship and intimacy-related concerns.

How therapeutic approaches shape online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and move toward what matters to them. It uses simple exercises to clarify values and take small, values-based steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying patterns of thought and behavior that keep problems going and practicing changes that reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning.

Finding the right approach is part of working together. Elli will talk with each person about their goals, needs, and preferences, and then suggest ways of working that match those priorities. That collaboration can include trying different tools or mixing approaches until the client feels it fits.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know how sessions are offered. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce time spent traveling. It can also let people use mindfulness exercises or skill practice between meetings. Licensed professionals adapt techniques like ACT and CBT to the online setting so sessions stay focused on practical steps and progress rather than theory.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

License details

LPC · Oklahoma
12350
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1205668928

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Elli address?

Elli works with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, stress, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting strain, ADHD, and identity concerns for LGBT clients.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her approach is warm and client-centered. She blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and practical CBT or DBT skills to fit each person's goals.

What training and experience does she have?

She holds a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University and has three years of professional experience as an LPC.

Where is Elli licensed to practice?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma and provides services based on that licensure.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can clients outside the United States work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps should I take to get started?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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