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Carey Buchanan

Carey Buchanan, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Experienced BACP counsellor for relationship and intimacy issues

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Experience

17+ years

Credentials

BACP

Languages

English

Based in

United Kingdom

  • Relationship focus
  • Intimacy concerns
  • Practical support

About Carey

Carey Buchanan is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). She has 17 years of experience supporting people through relationship and personal difficulties, including sexual and intimacy-related concerns.

Carey offers a calm, non-judgemental space where people can talk about stress, anxiety, depression and grief. She helps clients untangle relationship struggles, parenting strains and issues around self‑esteem. Practical conversation and clear steps are used alongside listening and reflection.

Her background includes work in NHS Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services and UK social care, plus private practice. That mix informs a flexible way of working that draws on several therapy approaches. Carey adapts her methods to what a person needs in the moment rather than pushing one fixed model.

She uses approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Attachment‑based and Client‑centred work. These are chosen to address patterns of thought, emotion and behaviour and to improve day to day coping.

Carey also supports people dealing with chronic illness, caregiver stress, body image concerns and attachment wounds. She offers practical tools for sleeping problems, coping with life changes and rebuilding intimacy after loss or separation.

To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability. Carey keeps her professional skills up to date and tailors each plan to the person's goals and situation.

How therapy approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to notice their thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, low mood and life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thought patterns and trying different behaviours to change feelings and outcomes. It suits worries, sleep problems and low mood. Attachment‑based therapy looks at early relationship patterns and how they shape present connections, which can help with intimacy and repeated relationship difficulties.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most helpful, and then try approaches collaboratively rather than imposing one method. Plans are reviewed and adjusted as progress is made.

Session options are not specified here, so please confirm the current online session formats before booking. Online counselling can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check‑in meetings when a full hour isn't needed. It also makes it straightforward to keep continuity if everyday routines change, while still allowing the same therapeutic tools and conversations to be used as in person.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Registration details

BACP · United Kingdom
338178

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Carey help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and relationship issues including intimacy and sexual concerns. Additional focus areas include caregiver stress, chronic illness, body image and family of origin difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Carey blends practical techniques with listening and reflection. Sessions aim to identify patterns, build coping skills and agree small steps clients can try between meetings.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 17 years of therapeutic experience across NHS child and adolescent services, social care and private practice, supporting people through a wide range of challenges.

What professional registration does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with Carey?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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