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Dominic Valdes

Dominic Valdes, LCSW

Therapist in California

Direct, affirming therapy for intimacy and relationship concerns

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Experience

17+ years

Credentials

LCSW

Languages

English

Based in

California

  • Focus on sexual health
  • Affirming for LGBTQ+
  • Practical skills based

About Dominic

Dominic Valdes is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in California who focuses on intimacy and relationship concerns, sexual health, and related emotional challenges. He commonly helps people managing anxiety, depression, trauma, and issues around sex, infidelity, or non-monogamous relationships. Dominic works with many in the LGBTQ+ community and centers respect and cultural awareness in his practice.

He uses practical, evidence-informed approaches to help people make small, manageable changes. Sessions tend to focus on skill-building, clearer communication, and processing past hurts so clients can move forward. Dominic draws on cognitive behavioral tools to shift unhelpful thinking and on client-centered methods to tailor work to each person's pace.

When trauma is part of the picture he may incorporate EMDR to address disturbing memories and DBT strategies to manage intense emotions and reduce impulsive behaviors. He also uses relationship-focused work when partners or intimacy issues are involved, applying ideas from the Gottman Method to improve interaction patterns.

Dominic has 17 years of experience in clinical settings and community work. He aims to create an affirming space where people can explore sexuality, heal from betrayal, and rebuild trust. He encourages realistic goals and concrete steps toward better daily functioning.

People who reach out will find a direct, compassionate therapist who listens carefully and helps plan what comes next. To begin, Dominic asks people to think about what they most want to change and bring that to the first session.

Therapeutic approaches and how they fit online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and following the client's lead to build trust and clarity; it helps people who need a respectful, flexible space to talk through difficult feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks problems into thoughts and actions and teaches practical strategies to reduce anxiety and change unhelpful behavior. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, addresses troubling memories and can reduce the emotional charge connected to past events.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will discuss goals, try techniques, and adjust the plan based on what helps most. People decide together whether to emphasize symptom-reduction tools, trauma processing, or relationship work as therapy progresses.

Confirm the current session options before booking so you know which formats are offered. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so people can meet without rearranging their day. Licensed professionals can use focused homework, skill-practice between sessions, and conversation-based sessions to keep progress moving when in-person visits are not practical.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCommitment issuesControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesNarcissismPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

License details

LCSW · California
71010
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1518242387

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, intimacy-related issues, relationship problems, and concerns around sexual health and non-monogamy.

How would you describe his therapy style?

Sessions are practical and collaborative, using client-centered listening alongside tools from CBT and DBT to address thoughts, behaviors, and emotional regulation.

What is his background and clinical experience?

He brings 17 years of experience in clinical and community settings supporting sexual health, relationship issues, trauma work, and addiction-related concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the country work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How does pricing and payments work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to therapist availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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