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Demire Coffin-Williams

Demire Coffin-Williams, LMHC

Therapist in New York

Restore connection and sexual wellbeing

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Experience

9+ years

Credentials

LMHC

Languages

English

Based in

New York

  • Focus on intimacy
  • Practical skills
  • Values based work

About Demire

Demire Coffin-Williams is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in New York who helps people facing intimacy and sexual functioning concerns, addiction, anxiety, and relationship struggles. He brings nine years of clinical work to sessions and aims to help people name what feels stuck and try practical steps toward change.

He uses clear, direct conversation to find what matters most to each person. Sessions focus on goals the client sets, with tools drawn from behavioral and acceptance-based approaches. He also addresses mood concerns like depression and bipolar symptoms, stress, grief, and problems with self-esteem.

Before private practice he worked across nonprofit, agency, and hospital settings. That background informs a flexible, recovery-oriented outlook. He frames challenges as parts of life that can be addressed rather than permanent labels.

In sessions he attends to attachment and relationship patterns, and to how values guide choices. He draws from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to offer both skills and perspective shifts. He also brings client-centered listening as a base for planning next steps.

He has experience supporting people with trauma, substance concerns, family of origin issues, blended family stress, and body image or sexual expression questions. Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

He emphasizes collaboration and practical strategies, helping people test new ways of relating, managing difficult emotions, and regaining a sense of agency in daily life.

How his approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings while clarifying personal values and taking steps toward them. It can be useful for sexual concerns, anxiety, and depression by making small, value-driven changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on patterns of thought and behavior and offers concrete exercises to shift unhelpful habits; it is often used for mood, anxiety, and addiction-related problems. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current intimacy and trust, and it can help people understand and change repeating relationship dynamics.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. He works collaboratively with each person to decide which methods match their goals and preferences. That choice can shift over time as needs and priorities change.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into busy days, shorten travel time, and allow more flexible scheduling around work or caregiving. It also lets therapists use exercises, worksheets, and real-time behavioral coaching in sessions so clients can try new skills between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

License details

LMHC · New York
008305
NPI (National Provider Identifier)
1740748680

As listed on the therapist's professional profile. You can check these details with the relevant licensing board, professional body or registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?

This therapist works with a wide range of issues including addictions, intimacy and sexual functioning concerns, depression, anxiety, relationship and family problems, trauma and grief.

What is the general therapeutic style and approach?

Sessions combine collaborative conversation with practical exercises. Approaches include acceptance-oriented work, cognitive behavioral techniques, and emotion and relationship-focused methods.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has nine years of experience in counseling and mental health settings, including nonprofit, agency, and hospital work prior to private practice.

What credentials and location are on record?

He is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in New York and operates from that state.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats does he offer?

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current session options when you schedule.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Some intimacy concerns have a physical side. If you notice pain or other physical symptoms, please speak with a doctor as well. Therapy can sit alongside medical care, not replace it.

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